Introverted girls are often in a passive state. Many times, even if they are interested in you, even if you are proactive, she may be very cold. So if you meet an introverted girl on a blind date, how should you pursue her?
1. The attitude should be sincere and natural
If you meet an introverted girl on a blind date, if you want to develop further with her, don't scare her away when you first meet her. Don't pretend to be a cold and reserved handsome man, that will easily put her off. Face her with a sincere and natural attitude and convey your sincerity and authenticity. Introverted girls are easily impressed by these elements.
2. Take the initiative to start some topics
Most introverted girls will not take the initiative to start topics. So at this time, as a boy, you should take the initiative to open up common topics to help each other talk. This is also a good opportunity to get to know each other. Interests, hobbies, and any small things in work and life can be used as topics, but it should be noted that when communicating with introverted girls, the interaction between the two should be strengthened. Questions from time to time, listening to the other party, making eye contact, etc. cannot be ignored. . In fact, as long as you practice social etiquette, dating an introverted girl is not a problem.
3. Take the initiative to add WeChat
As we said at the beginning, even if an introverted girl is interested in you, she will be embarrassed to take the initiative to add you on WeChat before the blind date is over. Therefore, you must pay attention to keep smiling and find ways to interact with each other. Take the initiative to add the other person's WeChat account before the blind date ends to prevent the other person from thinking that you are not interested in her at all.
4. Try to date in a comfortable place
Dating in an unfamiliar environment can easily lead to confusion Introverted girls feel reserved and uncomfortable. Therefore, we need to reduce risks. It is best to choose a comfortable and relaxing environment, which will not only help the other party take off their guard, but also help improve the quality of the date. If conditions permit, you can also bring one or two mutual friends.
5. Pay more attention to the changes in the atmosphere during a date
When dating an introverted girl, you should pay special attention to the changes in the atmosphere. Do not often have bad emotions such as complaints, indignation, ridicule, etc. These emotions will actually cause It greatly ruins the fun of dating and also brings negative energy to the other party. In fact, no one likes a person who has a cloudy face and is full of complaints. If you want to be accepted by an introverted girl, then use your sunshine energy of loving life and loving hard to infect her.
6. Learn to guide her topics during the date
Introverted girls don’t like to talk, and they don’t like to talk. He won't take the initiative to talk to people he doesn't know well. Therefore, if you want to catch her, you need to guide her to talk. mostA good way is: just take the initiative to tell your story and let her listen. At the appropriate time, guide her to slowly start talking about herself. When you two have a good conversation, that's a good start.
7. Give appropriate surprises
In fact, some small romantic surprises are what girls want, and the same goes for introverted girls. The most important holidays, especially girls think that are very important. On important days, you can express yourself well, create surprises for girls, let girls feel your sincerity, and thus touch her heart.
8. Be more patient
Get to know each other, then attract each other, and finally fall in love. Therefore, the countermeasures for introverted girls are: just open her heart during the stage of getting to know each other, and the subsequent process will be much smoother. Men should be more patient and help her slowly open her heart and get into her heart. Chat with her more often and start as a friend. Don't think about making her your lover in a few days.
