Each of us has a different personality. Some girls are lively and cheerful, some are quiet and introverted, and some are withdrawn and don’t like to socialize. So when facing girls with different personalities, we must pay attention to different things when interacting with them. method. Let me share with you what are the symptoms of girls being withdrawn? How do you chase a lonely girl? Hope it helps.
Symptoms of being withdrawn in girls
Unsociable girls generally do not like to be in contact with others, do not like any social interaction, let alone communicating with others. Loneliness often manifests as being alone and living in isolation. , have a mentality of boredom, wariness and contempt for others; everything has nothing to do with themselves, indifference, and a self-imprisonment; if they interact with others, they will also lack enthusiasm and vitality, appearing careless and perfunctory.
You may have experienced some bad things in the past and had psychological trauma, such as rough treatment by parents, bullying, ridicule and other stimuli from partners, and prematurely accepted the bad experience of trouble, worry, and anxiety, resulting in A negative mood can even induce mental illness. Without maternal love or overly harsh and rough education methods, children will not receive the warmth of the family and will become timid, inferior and indifferent, overly sensitive, distrustful of anyone, and ultimately develop a withdrawn character.
How to chase a withdrawn girl
A withdrawn girl will lack a sense of security and self-confidence. Avoidance behavior. Therefore, when faced with a boy's pursuit, she usually does not accept it rashly, but chooses to escape. But having said that, if she doesn't accept you, it doesn't necessarily mean that she doesn't feel good or inappropriate about you now, it's just that she will pessimistically predict your future, which may be fruitless, so she chooses not to start.
Therefore, if you are pursuing a withdrawn girl, you must choose her resolutely. Don’t be stingy with your expressions. You can praise her more (don’t be fake but give heartfelt and specific praises) and let her feel that you care about her. Her unabashed preference. At the same time, don't show too much purpose (being nice to you means liking you, that's it, you need to ask for something from her) so that she can get along with you without pressure or baggage.
At the same time, you have to try to lead her to open her heart to you, to be his sunshine, to take her to see things she has never seen before, and to play things she has never played before. If you find a common topic with her, you will find that her personality is not so lonely. At this point, she has actually become accustomed to your existence, and it is natural to pursue her.
Finally, a warning to boys who want to pursue a withdrawn girl: Don’t be dissuaded by her indifferent attitude at the beginning. Because indifference is just a protective color for her. If you uncover her indifferent appearance, you will find that she actually needs your care and love.
