Girls are becoming more and more difficult to woo nowadays, and many boys feel confused and helpless. So, why is it so hard to woo girls? How to properly pursue girls? This article will discuss the following aspects.

1. Independence

Modern women are becoming more and more independent. They have their own careers, hobbies and Social circles are no longer as dependent on men as they used to be. Therefore, if you simply express your affection for her or give her a gift, you are likely to be regarded as a person who lacks thinking and depth.

The correct approach: Understand her hobbies and values, and respect her choices. Establish common topics and points of interest with her and show your connotation and wisdom.

2. High Standards

Modern women have higher and higher demands on themselves, and they hope to find a partner who can match them. Therefore, when pursuing girls, if you do not have enough advantages and attractions, you will easily be rejected.

The correct method: Improve your own quality and literacy, enhance your self-confidence and charm. At the same time, we must also understand the needs and expectations of girls and meet their requirements as much as possible.

3. Don’t like to be passive

Modern women are more independent and confident. They don’t like to passively wait for boys to pursue. If you simply express your affection or give gifts, it will be difficult to attract a girl's interest and attention.

The correct method: proactively establish contact and communication with girls, and show your sincerity and sincerity. At the same time, you must also understand the girl's personality and preferences and act according to the actual situation.

Girls today are difficult to woo not because they have become difficult or picky, but because of changes in social environment and values. Correctly pursuing girls requires improving one's own quality and literacy, understanding girls' needs and expectations, and proactively establishing contact and communication with them.