The first principle is that you must not fool yourself - and you are the easiest person to fool.——Richard P. Feynman

　When you like a girl crazily, it is easier for you to be rational. Confusion began to occur, and even gradually degenerated, imagining the girl into a perfect existence, as if she would not marry her in this life!

At this time, your parents said - fuck me, if you marry She severed the father-son relationship with me - her objection makes you very uncomfortable. How should you choose at this time?

Love or family affection? Leopard Head: I want them all!

1 Parents have a far-sighted vision than you

All love is for the purpose of meeting, only the love of parents is to send their children away with their heads held high. Generally speaking, your parents' requirements and expectations for you are all for your own good. As your parents, they have more experiences and thoughts than you do, whether it is reading people or things.

When your parents don’t agree with you chasing the girl you like, they must have their reasons. If you feel that you can’t understand it at this time, you can calm down and communicate with your parents and ask them why they object to you chasing the girl you like. girls.

Sometimes, your parents may have a longer-term vision than you do, and may think more carefully than you do about some major matters.

2 Think objectively about your parents’ thoughts

When you pursue a girl you like and your parents don’t agree, you should Calm down carefully, think about your parents' thoughts from an objective perspective, and examine whether your current thoughts are too radical?

All appearances are false. ——"Diamond Sutra"

The human brain often deceives itself, so there are three major illusions in life:

1) The mobile phone rings

　3) She likes me

When your parents disapprove of your pursuit of the girl you like, you should also think carefully about why you like it. This girl?

Only by getting along with her more, getting to know her better, and communicating more... can you know whether this girl is suitable for dating.

3 Pay attention to your own will

I advise you not to cherish your gold-threaded clothes, and I advise you to cherish your youth. . Flowers are ready to be broken when they bloom, but don’t wait until there are no flowers left to break branches.

In one’s life, one can meet one’s true love(Regardless of whether this is an illusion or not), it is a very lucky thing. When you can touch your own happiness, you should take the initiative to seize the opportunity.

The hymn of mankind is the hymn of courage. The greatness of mankind is the greatness of will. Obey your own will and pursue your own ideas. When you meet a girl you like, you should try your best to pursue her. Don't care what your parents say.