People who are good at reading generally have good language organization skills, so it stands to reason that it should be easy to find a girlfriend. Then why are there many people who are good at reading and can't find a girlfriend?
Why can’t I find a girlfriend while studying?
1. Overconfidence
People who are good at reading are generally very confident, but overconfidence It becomes arrogant, especially in dealing with others. Usually he is either talking to himself or boasting, and will not take anyone or anything seriously. This can easily make women feel insecure, not to mention that compared to what they say, Women care more about how you do things. Today’s women are all good at fighting. If you talk too much, you will be looked down upon by women.
2. Men have no masculinity
Many men who are well-educated, although they are men, do not have a man's heart. They are indecisive and coy whether they speak or do things. Men will Masculinity is replaced by femininity, and everything he does is extremely enchanting. Even if there is no problem with the sexual orientation of this kind of man, he cannot cater to women's views on mate selection. How can he cater to the preferences of most women? It is estimated that women will find various other excuses anytime and anywhere. End the relationship.
3. Personality problem
A man’s temperament is tricky and violent, and he is limited to close people and goes out. When a man is outside, he will behave with his tail between his legs. He will often go to extremes when getting along with the people around him, especially with the people who are closer to him. When a dispute occurs, a man will use both words and hands, even if it is not directed at a woman. Women will also be miserable. After all, men's nature is like this and it will be hard to change. Nowadays, men's kindness to themselves is completely a disguise made by suppressing the truth. When they get married, men will take off the mask of hypocrisy.
4. No stable job
No matter how good you are at studying, a man does not have a stable job. If a woman has great ambitions, she will also think that she cannot be a breadwinner, and she will often be unable to achieve a high level or a low level. Currently, being single can help her survive. If one person is full, the whole family will not be hungry. When the time comes to support the family, women will shudder, and women will look for bad men. When it comes to dating, one should look at the present, after all, bad men are not suitable for marriage. When women find a good man to marry, they should look to the future. After all, although good men are not suitable for dating, they are suitable for marriage.