It is easiest for girls to get closer when they are on their period, but most boys don’t know what to do. Below, the editor will take you to understand what boys should do to get closer when girls are on their period. .

1. Remove girls’ guard during the menstrual period

Girls are affected by hormones in the body. During the menstrual period, girls It is easy to have big mood swings, which may not even be realized by the girls themselves. At this time, you should be more prepared to "fight" and break down the girl's psychological defenses.

　1. Complaints and negative energy

　“Why does it hurt so much during my menstrual period? What did I do wrong in my previous life to become a girl with dysmenorrhea? Why don’t men come to menstruation balabala. .....”

Strategy:

Mistake Demonstration 1: Which girl doesn’t have her period, why are you so squeamish?

Mistake Demonstration 2: Dysmenorrhea is a disease, and I’m afraid you’ll be in pain, so why don’t I have a baby with you?

The girl endures the pain in her stomach and has no intention of listening to you. There is only one word for the correct strategy, which is "coax".

Treat her like a kitten to express your anxiety and distress.

2. Unreasonable troubles

Girls in menstrual period do all kinds of things anytime and anywhere without any reason or conditions. Because any girl in your circle of friends questioned you about a completely unrelated photo, or she might not be able to sleep at 1 o'clock in the night and suddenly wanted to drink red bean milk tea, or she might lose her temper with you without warning because of the littlest things.

Strategy:

Mistake Demonstration 1: Can you be reasonable? If you do it again, I will be really angry.

Mistake Demonstration 2: You are on your period now and you are in a bad mood. Please calm down first.

Girls are never reasonable creatures, especially girls during their menstrual period. All they care about is your attitude. Tell the truth? Don't be stupid.

Effective communication means that you just listen to what the girl says. Her crotch will bleed for a week every month. What’s wrong with having sex with you? Wait until she has gone through her period... (manual smile).

3. Inexplicable indifference

A girl’s menstrual period is not just as simple as bleeding, it is often accompanied by symptoms Just stomachache, dizziness, body chills, etc.

Girls who are usually carefree and outgoing may suddenly become cold due to biology. I don’t talk, I don’t reply to WeChat messages, and no one except the courier guy and the takeaway guy pays attention to me. I just want a big quilt to lie down at home until the end of time.

Strategy:

Error messageFan 1: What's wrong with you? Why are you ignoring me? Why don't you want to talk? Did I make you angry? Just tell me.

Error Demonstration 2: What’s wrong with you? Let me tell you a joke. Why don't you smile? I'll take you out to play. Get dressed and leave right away.

If a girl is unwilling to communicate during her menstrual period, please give up asking her endlessly, "Do you not love me anymore?" And don't take her out to play or eat. A girl who is too lazy to talk is not interested. Put on makeup and change clothes to go out.

Don’t talk, don’t make any sound, just stay with her silently and let her know you are there.

2. Relieve physiological problems of girls during menstrual period

Girls during menstrual period generally experience pain stages such as chest swelling, waist soreness, lower abdominal pain, and 24-hour non-stop pain. Add cold hands and feet. The degree of pain varies from person to person. If your girlfriend or the girl you like has dysmenorrhea, congratulations, she is really a broken-winged angel who cannot be messed with.

1. Talk less and do more

Misfortune comes from the mouth, not to mention that there are people around you who are menstruating. This girl is so awesome. Although you may not be with her and can't cook a bowl of ginger syrup for her, you can definitely order a mutton soup or warm red date soy milk for her, and then say to her: "I can't take care of you without you." You, the mutton soup represents my condolences~" She can feel your attentiveness and intention through the phone.

Strategy:

Mistake Demonstration 1: Stomachache? Drink more hot water.

Error Demonstration 2: Is it that uncomfortable? Why don’t you take some medicine?

Drinking more hot water may be the last thing that crushes your relationship. straw. Instead of drinking some hot water, why not make her a cup of steaming brown sugar water and put it next to her hand, and then put your big warm hand on her belly.

If she is having her period outside, take off your coat and tie it around her waist;

If she is in so much pain that she can’t walk, call a taxi for her. Car;

If she is cold, buy her a warm baby and stick it on her belly...

There are countless scenarios where you can take countless actions, but the central idea is just one: do something , use actions instead of words to prove that you care about her.

　2. Material preparation

A girl’s menstrual period is also the time when she is most easily moved by you. At this time, you must prepare sufficient materials.

Brown sugar. But a large cup of steaming brown sugar water can give girls more warmth and psychological satisfaction.

Although this warmth comes from the temperature of the water, in their hearts they will acquiesce that this warmth comes from you who thoughtfully handed over this cup of brown sugar water.

Menstrual towel. Can you stop being straight? You have the courage to go to the drugstore to buy condoms, but you don’t have the courage to go to the supermarket to help girlsBuy a pack of menstrual napkins?

But what needs to be asked in advance is whether the brand she commonly uses is cotton or mesh, and then she can buy one pack each for day and night use.

Painkillers. If the pain is really unbearable, take medicine decisively.

Of course, girls are timid and will instinctively resist medicine. You need to patiently serve warm water and coax her to take it.