When many people face a future and love, they will choose a future without thinking. But in fact, these people often have never really been exposed to love at all. So you can choose without hesitation. Let me give you a few examples:

How to choose between future and love

1. The first version:

You are 27 this year, in your hometown Work as a civil servant at the grassroots level in the city. This year, I was selected for the writing comprehensive position run by the provincial capital and municipal party committee. Your family's financial situation is acceptable, your parents are in good health and you don't have to worry about them, so you don't need to worry about them at ordinary times. This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, and you are eager to take advantage of it while you are young. You are single now anyway.

At this time, I ask you which is more important, the future or love. You will definitely say: "Love is selling love." In this case, love does not exist at all, and there is no choice.

Second and second version:

You are 27 years old and working as a civil servant at the grassroots level in your hometown city. This year, I was selected for the comprehensive writing position run by the provincial capital and municipal party committee. Your family's financial situation is acceptable, and your parents are in good health and have no worries. You don't need to worry about them. This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, and you are eager to take advantage of it while you are young. My family has just introduced you to a girlfriend on a blind date, and we have been dating for two months. The two sides feel that they are quite compatible, but the contact is not very deep.

At this time, I ask you which is more important, the future or love. You will definitely say: "The first sword to go ashore is to kill the person you love first." This is the beginning of love, but the weight is too small, and it is really unattractive compared with the future.

3. The third version:

You and your girlfriend have been together since childhood. Your parents have had a deep friendship for a lifetime. You were joked about having a baby kiss when you were young. . You have been dating since high school, and you were in a different place when you were in college. Although the process was full of twists and turns, we managed to persevere through joint efforts until we returned to our hometown together after graduation. You are each other’s white moonlight. You love her very much and she loves you very much.

Every time she meets you, she jumps into your arms with a smile on her face. Every time you look at her, you will find that her eyes are full of you. Every time you have a dispute, her considerateness will make you feel, "If you have a wife like this, what more can you ask for from a husband."

You have been planning your future life together since you were in college.

You promised her that you would marry her, and she was filled with joy. Your family members all agree with your marriage and have already begun preparations for the engagement. You are both in your hometown city, you are a grassroots civil servant, and your girlfriend is a teacher. At this time, you were selected for the comprehensive writing position run by the provincial capital and municipal party committee. If you go there, you do have a chance to get promoted.

You are still young and you still have some ambitions in your heart that you want to realize. But when you go to a place like the agency, you basically give yourself all to the organization, and your personal time is almost zero. And your girlfriend is also a teacher who just passed the exam.If I can't go there with you because of the division's establishment, I will definitely be in a different place for a long time.

The four years of college in a different place are already very difficult, and the work is busy and in a different place. What problems will occur if there is no guarantee. Your family also hopes that you can live a stable life, but they don't expect anything to get ahead. At this time, I ask you whether the future is more important or love. You squatted on the balcony all night, watching the stars, and smoked out a pack of cigarettes.

Finally make a decision, "I choose love." This situation is called choice. Only with this premise can we be qualified to discuss "Which is more important, future or love?"

Understood. Most of those who choose their future instantly have no choice. My advice is also "keep your career first, then you can keep your love." That's because the current emotional state of these people simply cannot reach the level of love. Either the person has been on a blind date for less than three months, or the other person is in danger of being "hatred" by ignoring her. There is no love at all, so it's a waste of time. Of course, there is no way to choose a future. Only when the current love and future benefits to him are at a close level. Only then are you qualified to talk about choices, and only then are you qualified to consider which is more important, preconditions or love.