Fighting is an inevitable problem that couples will encounter, and the cold violence after the quarrel makes the girlfriend feel sad and disappointed. As boyfriends, we should learn how to coax our girlfriends, resolve conflicts, and rebuild relationships. Some suggestions will be given below from several aspects.
1. Calm down
After a quarrel, both parties need to calm down and calm down their emotions. Impulsive behavior will only aggravate conflicts and fail to solve problems. The boyfriend should take the initiative to show his sincerity and willingness to change his attitude.
2. Candid communication
When both parties are emotionally stable, candid communication can be conducted. The boyfriend should listen to his girlfriend's thoughts and feelings, understand her point of view, and express his own. Through effective communication, the root cause of the problem can be found and solutions can be found.
3. Apologize and admit mistakes
If your boyfriend uses excessive words or behaves coldly and violently during a quarrel, he should apologize and admit his mistakes in time. Apologizing is not only a sign of respect for your girlfriend, but also a way for your boyfriend to reflect on and correct his behavior. At the same time, your boyfriend should also promise not to repeat similar mistakes and take practical actions.
4. Give space and time
Sometimes, your girlfriend may need some time to calm down and re-examine the problem. Her boyfriend should give her enough space and time and not interfere excessively or ask questions. During this time, your boyfriend can think about his problems and make positive changes.
5. Prove with actions
Coaxing your girlfriend is not just about saying a few nice words, but more importantly, using actions to prove your sincerity and changes. The boyfriend can take the initiative to care about his girlfriend's life and work and help her solve problems. In addition, the boyfriend can also arrange some romantic dates or surprises to let his girlfriend feel his love and care for her.
6. Build trust
After a quarrel, trust is often damaged to a certain extent. Your boyfriend should build trust through his words and actions, and be honest and transparent. At the same time, the boyfriend should also believe that his girlfriend can forgive him and be willing to get out of the predicament with him.
7. Learn to listen
In daily life, a boyfriend should learn to listen to his girlfriend’s needs and feelings. When your girlfriend has something to say, your boyfriend should listen patiently and respond positively. By listening, a boyfriend can better understand his girlfriend's inner world and enhance mutual understanding and trust.
8. Sustained efforts
Coaxing your girlfriend is not something that can be accomplished overnight, it requires sustained efforts and persistence from your boyfriend. A boyfriend should always maintain care and love for his girlfriend and constantly improve his behavior and attitude. Only through long-term dedication can broken relationships be rebuilt.
Cold violence after a quarrel is a kind of hurt, but as long as the boyfriend truly regrets and takes practical actions, he will have a chance to regain his girlfriend's forgiveness and trust. Winning a girlfriend takes time and patience, but when two people work together, their relationship will become stronger.
