Some girls are always not confident enough when it comes to love, and are prone to worry, suspicion, and suspicion. They are very slow to develop relationships. Such girls are often called insecure girls.
If the girl you like happens to be this kind of insecure girl, then how should you get along with her to pursue her?
How to woo an insecure girl
1. Be more mature
Comparing to a young girl, insecure girls prefer to be more mature She needs a man who understands her better, because she feels insecure and tired of staying with naive boys.
There are too many uncertainties, and it is easy to cause some conflicts, which rarely appear in front of mature men.
2. Transform into a warm man
Girls who are insecure seem to have higher independence than other girls. However, this kind of independence is not what she really wants in her heart. Independence! But a kind of forced independence.
Therefore, insecure girls may appear to be independent, but they crave a sense of dependence more than anyone else.
When chasing her, you must pay more attention to details and be a warm man, which can make you more attractive.
3. Take care of her emotions
Girls who are insecure always have trouble controlling their emotions. Perform poorly and get emotional easily.
They often have a strong sense of anxiety and insecurity, so their emotions are very rich. If you just think that she is having a temper, it will be very hurtful to her.
Take good care of her emotions and give her enough respect, and she will appreciate you more.
When she finds a sense of security in you, then there is no need to chase her, she can no longer leave you.
Why do girls feel insecure
Girls who feel insecure care too much about external perceptions. , so the focus of their thoughts is not "what should I do" but "how should I do it".
From another level, girls who are insecure lack themselves and do not know how to love themselves, let alone how to love others.
They often cannot love without fear or trust someone. This may be because I have suffered a lot of trauma, I am afraid of being hurt, I am afraid of being abandoned, I am always on guard, I close my heart tightly, I am just afraid of getting hurt.
Those who are insecure in love will be afraid of being abandoned, and will usually give up and leave the other person first.
Those who are insecure actually don’t want to leave the other person, but are just worried that the other person will leave her. She cannot bear the pain and uncertainty of the other person leaving her, so she takes the initiative, or refuses the beginning of the relationship, or ends it early. this relationship.
People who are insecure are subconsciously not confident in maintaining a long-term intimate relationship.
