Although borrowing money between lovers does not reflect anything, as the saying goes, talking about money hurts the relationship, let alone a couple, even between husband and wife. If money issues are always involved, it can easily affect both parties. relationship, so it is not recommended for couples to borrow money.

The reasons why couples cannot borrow money:

1. Talking about money hurts feelings

Whether it is family or friends, we should be careful when discussing this topic, because we all know how hard it is to earn money. If we ask our boyfriend or girlfriend to borrow money, what will the other person think? We don’t know, and we ourselves feel very burdened and can’t help but guess what the other person is thinking. When this kind of mentality appears, the feelings are no longer pure.

2. Involving interests

People will be destroyed if they don’t do it for themselves. In our human bones, we always put ourselves at risk. The one who comes first, especially when it comes to interests, is that there is no such thing as a couple. We can see how many couples have a bloody fight over divorce property, and how many brothers have turned against each other to fight for family property. To be honest, the relationship between husband and wife and blood relationship should be deeper than the relationship between lovers. Since such a deep relationship cannot resist the temptation of interests, how can lovers resist it.

3. Money can easily cause conflicts

In fact, if it is only a small amount, then we can still borrow it, but if it is a large amount, then forget it. Once the amount becomes large, the borrower will worry all day long that the other party will not repay. As long as we have this kind of mentality, we will uncontrollably test the other party and want to know when the other party will pay back, and sometimes even refuse. Consciously urge the other party. The borrower is very sensitive to begin with, and can detect the slightest temptation from the other party. In this way, it is easy to become dissatisfied with the other party, and it is only a matter of time before conflicts break out.

4. Borrowing money only 0 times and countless times

People have a kind of luck mentality, when the other party After borrowing once, the market has reached a sweet spot. In the future, when the capital turnover is unable to come back, they will subconsciously ask you to borrow money. So at this time, should you borrow or not? You may also know that if you borrow it from her again, she will ask you to borrow it next time. Do you feel that one is bigger than the other? Therefore, the editor still recommends that couples should not borrow money, as people's hearts cannot withstand the test of money.