When a boy wants to chase a girl, he will try to be nice to her and try to impress the girl with kindness. In fact, this is wrong from the beginning, because chasing girls relies on attraction. Thinking that being nice to girls may not impress girls at all, but only impress themselves. Especially after a boy treats a girl well, what does it mean for a girl to say I'm not worthy of you being so nice to me?

1. The subtext of girls saying I’m not worthy of you being so nice to me

Many boys don’t understand girls’ thoughts at all, so they use the phrase girls saying I’m not worthy of you being so nice to me. In seemingly simple terms, girls actually have a lot of subtext:

1. In fact, you don’t have to be so nice to me. Because I really have no feelings for you (reject you)

2. In fact, you don’t need to be so nice to me, because I can’t treat you like you (I want your good, but out of There are various reasons why she cannot treat you as well as you do. It may be laziness, she may not like you as much as you like her, she may just treat you as a friend but still enjoys your kindness, or it may be due to personality (such as introversion)

< p>　3. In fact, you don’t have to be so nice to me. I’m not as nice as you think, and I’m not worthy of your kindness (some girls have never met someone who’s nice to them, so they’ll appear panicked, maybe It may be due to her lack of self-confidence, or it may be due to the living environment since childhood. She deliberately told you to stimulate your inner desire to protect and treat her better)

2. Girls say I am not worthy of you What should I do if you are so kind to me

　1. Because I like you, I do everything because I like you. There is no question of whether it is worth it or not. If you also like me, then let's be together! If you don't like me, I will be your friend while I still like you and as long as it doesn't annoy you. I won't cross the line or create pressure.

　2. When a girl says I’m not worthy of you being so nice to me, it may be because she doesn’t like you, but it’s because you’re attached to her. She may define you as a friend but won’t be with you. Together, there may be no results. In this case, don't pay too much attention to her, take the initiative back to yourself, try to be hot and cold to her, don't tell her, love is just a game at the beginning, if you really want to be with her, then To endure.

3. Boys should have their own attitude when chasing girls. Since girls say they don’t deserve you to be so nice to her, , then you might as well cool down first and see if girls will take the initiative to find you. Of course, you should also be careful that this is a test for you by the girl. If she feels that you cannot always be nice to her, the result may be that she feels that your love for her is not deep enough.

When a girl says I’m not worthy of you being so nice to me, she still feels guilty in her heart. On the one hand, she enjoys your kindness to her, but on the other hand, she doesn’t want to be with you right away. In fact, she Also hesitating, if handled well, there is still a good chance of catching her.