It’s hard to say that relationships are fair. Sometimes we like a girl very much, but no matter how hard we try, the other girl is still very cold to us. This may not be because she has a cold personality, but she doesn’t want to be warm to you. So how should you flirt with a cold girl?

1. How to deal with indifference in chat

When we first get to know girls, we can actually have a good conversation. The aloofness of girls is not always like this at the beginning, but will show up after a period of time. This is because you don't know how to chat, and you chat to death all the time.

The communication between boys and girls requires communication. If you cannot make a girl interested when chatting, then it is impossible for her to have a good impression of you. It is normal for her to be cold towards you.

So when pursuing a girl, we should first understand the girl’s needs and use them as a topic for chatting. If you always talk about things you are interested in, it is normal for the other person not to want to talk to you.

Only by starting a chat based on a girl’s needs can she arouse her desire to chat and make her want to interact with you. It is also important to find out the topics that girls are interested in. Don’t always ask questions. Girls hate chatting like they are checking their household registration. The result will only be that the other person becomes cold towards you and becomes farther and farther away from you.

2. The key to chatting

It is best to chat with yourself Use experiences or short stories as topics to guide girls to chat. From the girl's feedback, determine what she is interested in, and then talk about her needs and preferences, so that the girl will no longer be cold to you.

In addition, when chatting, be sure to provide valuable content to girls, such as your own preferences, or those who need some pressure relief, emotional expression, or emotional resonance. When chatting, if you can provide spiritual value to the other party, then she will become interested in you and be willing to chat with you for a long time.

In short, during the chat process, you must not chat awkwardly, or use the method of chatting to check your household registration. Experiences and stories related to actual situations must contain emotions and emotions, and they must resonate well. In this way, girls will fall in love with chatting with you and no longer be cold to you.

3. Break through the cold relationship

1. You have to make demands , to guide the other party to invest to show their own framework and sense of not being cheap. Create status parity.

2. Use euphemistic ways to upgrade the relationship. In many cases, girls will be very disgusted by what they say in a more explicit way. It is easier to accept it if you express it implicitly.Get the other person to accept it and "invest" in you.

When a girl is cold to you, in the final analysis, she just doesn’t like you and thinks you are worthless. In fact, the kind of people we are depends on the kind of girls we chase. Therefore, if we want to chase better girls, we should make ourselves better people.