In today’s world of social software, finding a girlfriend is no longer too difficult, but not all girls are suitable for long-term development. If you want to find a long-term and reliable girlfriend, you need to learn to judge. So how to judge whether a girl is suitable for long-term development?
1. See who she often hangs out with
Birds of a feather flock together, and people flock together. The girlfriend you want to find is often with gamblers. Basically, I can be sure that the person you are looking for is not a mahjong master, but also a poker player. After getting married and starting a family, she is not at home most of the time, so you want to find a girlfriend. A reliable girlfriend must first start by understanding who she usually hangs out with.
2. See if she is kind
Whether she has love and compassion for small animals, whether she has compassion for the weak in society, and whether she has respect for the elderly. Kindness is a quality that transcends all others. If a person does not have even the most basic kindness, then he will turn a blind eye when he sees an animal being abused, he will stand by when he sees an old man staggering and falling, he will take pleasure in making fun of others, and he will be indifferent to the miserable situation in society. With such a character, do you still expect her to treat you with a sincere and kind heart?
3. Understand what she pursues in her heart What is it
I like reading and listening to music, crazy about football and basketball, keen on traveling, addicted to the Internet, cruising in the business world, fighting in officialdom, passionate about money, addicted to Du Kang, and pursuing thousands of things in my heart. What kind of person do you like in the person you are looking for? Once you know it clearly, you can choose him or her.
4. Communication with girls is the key
Many boys may try to determine a girl’s relationship status through some questions, such as: What arrangements do you usually have on weekends? It’s the weekend. , didn’t you go out with your boyfriend?
When a girl clearly expresses that she is single, for example:
What is a boyfriend? Can he eat it?
I don’t have a boyfriend, I just stay at home alone and watch TV shows.
If any of the above situations occur, it is a signal to you that you are allowed to pursue her further.
So, what you have to do is: attract girls.
5. Mutual attraction is a good start!
At this time someone will say: In the end , it’s better to pursue her first. If you don’t pursue her, how can you have the chance to attract her?
But from a female perspective, if you don’t attract her, how can you have the chance to pursue her?
< p>For example:You ask her about what kind of boys she likes,She obviously doesn’t have to tell you
She obviously doesn’t have to come out if you ask her to hang out
She obviously doesn’t have to tell you if you ask her to chat, but she can use various reasons to ignore you
If you want to chase her, she can obviously refuse any opportunity for you to pursue her
Especially for schools or in a relatively close place where you can see each other without looking up, can you chase her? She may already have an answer in her heart.
