Chasing girls is a matter of knowledge. Most boys have not received this kind of education, which leads to a large number of straight men who are lustful and only focus on giving and pleasing without any effective communication methods. In the end, there is a shortage of people and money. , and some even lead to tragedies.

Today I will teach you the most effective way to chase girls

1. Create emotional fluctuations

< p>To put it bluntly, it is to create "surprises" and use something unexpected to make girls feel emotional. In fact, in real life, giving gifts is a way to create surprises.

But in the eyes of a girl, how much you are willing to pay for her means how much you love her. Of course, a normal girl will not ask you to go beyond the financial scope and meet her personal requirements. If you violate it, it means she wants to defraud you of your money, so you'd better leave as soon as possible. But girls don’t like being too stingy and stingy.

2. Don’t confess your feelings

Many boys think that confessing is the first step in pursuing her, so when pursuing her, they will confess first to let girls know how they feel. But often after you express your love, girls will ignore you.

The reason is very simple. If a girl doesn’t understand you and doesn’t like you, if she expresses her love for you, of course she will reject you and feel that you are harassing her. What’s worse, they will boycott you or even avoid you. looking at you.

The correct approach is to show more of your good side. When she is interested in you, then upgrade your relationship and things will naturally fall into place.

3. Need for control

Many people like a girl and want to contact her all day long, which is terrible. Girls will feel that they have no freedom at all. Maybe I have a crush on you and then I hate you.

Think about it from another perspective. If you're a girl, you don't want someone staring at you all the time. I send you messages when nothing happens and ask you, "What are you doing?", "Who are you with? It's so annoying. If you don't like this person, will you think she is harassing you??" /p>

No matter how much you like her, you can't pester her, whether she is a man or a woman, you especially hate people who pester you, and it is easy to make you feel that you have nothing to do

4. Don't educate her

Men's thoughts are different from women's thoughts. Women always express their thoughts and jump from one topic to another. It doesn't matter to them whether the previous topic ends.

But boys like to chat in a problem-solving way. Every sentence is logical and reasonable. They finish one topic step by step before starting the next topic.

So they like to reason and always like to educate girls. They think they are right and say good things to her over and over again. They must make the other party accept their point of view.

It’s easy to force girls to do things they don’t like and think you’re nagging them., I feel tired of you, but you are still aggrieved. You feel that you think of everything for her, but she doesn't appreciate it.