Chasing a girl and being nice to her will only move her at most, but will not make her fall in love with you. Even if you catch her by kneeling and licking her, you may end up breaking up in the end. So how can you chase girls without turning into a bitch?
1. Don’t be too considerate of girls
Many boys have been indoctrinated with the idea that you must Learn to be considerate of others, so that now you finally learn it. You think about everything for her, and you think about everything for her. Before you fell in love, she went out drinking with her best friends, and you said it didn't matter and she must come back early. She said she wanted this and that, and we bought whatever you said she wanted. Because you are too considerate, you learn to tolerate. In the end, she became more and more presumptuous, you became more and more mean, and you stepped back step by step because you were sensible. In the end, there was no way out and he became her licking dog.
2. Don’t be too soft-hearted
Once upon a time there was a saying: "As a man, the last thing I want to do is All I see is women crying.”
No matter what the other party's fault is, as long as she cries, you will soften. You tell yourself that anyone who makes your girlfriend cry is not worthy of being a man. People still have to have their own principles. And you have lost your principles again and again in your soft-heartedness, and she already knows that you will definitely not be really angry with her, let alone get rid of her. You, a man, are boring, unprincipled, and have no value. Some men just need a wave of attitude, because most boys will not refuse. After chatting with a girl for a few words, you will not know what toughness is.
3. Don’t think too much
Because you care about her so much, it is easy to touch your sensitive nerves. A girl went drinking with her best friend. You said it was okay, but you were extremely honest in your heart. "Did she go out with boys?" "Did she want to sleep because she was tired and didn't want to talk to me anymore?" Other people's stomachs can hold a boat, but your heart can hold the fission of an atomic nucleus. You always think a lot and have random thoughts. The more you think about it, the less you understand, and you become more and more suspicious and absent-minded. Until one day the girl suddenly realizes that you have changed and she is tired.
4. Don’t be too nice to girls
Some boys are really too nice to girls. One of the most popular sayings nowadays is that you are a boy who has eyes for her. I have a brother. As long as the girl tells her that she is missing something or feels uncomfortable, he will buy it without saying anything and go to the hospital when she needs to. I'm afraid I'll lose a few minutes. That girl remembers her birthday every month more accurately than his. Many people think this should be the perfect love. But the reality is that you treat her too muchWell, over time she will get used to this good thing, take it for granted, and then ask for more excessive things. Love is balanced and mutual. If one party pays too much and the other party does not pay, then the party who pays more is destined to be stepped on. I hope you can all meet a girl who has eyes for you.