Nowadays, scumbag men and scumbag women have become very common on the Internet. Many people do deceptive things under the guise of love. Below, the editor will take you through three common tricks used by scumbag girls. Boys must pay attention to identifying them.
1. Get in touch with friends
What scumbag girls like most is white For prostitution, she will not reject you directly, but she will not agree to be with you, and will always contact you for various reasons and identities.
Whenever there is a holiday, she will give you corresponding greetings and care. In fact, she just wants to maintain a weak contact with you and asks you for gifts and red envelopes.
Scumbags understand men very well and know their true inner needs.
She can change her identity at any time in front of men. She can be a good girl who inspires men's protective desire, or she can be a big sister who comforts men at any time.
In short, she has everything you need, and she will satisfy you with everything you want.
2. Small investment in exchange for high returns
It’s not that the scumbag didn’t invest in the beginning; She will get maximum benefits with minimum investment.
In their world, feelings are exchange, not the purpose at all.
The sacrifice of emotional value in the early stage is for the benefit in the later stage, so they attach great importance to men’s needs and focus on men’s requirements everywhere. This also makes many men feel that they have met true love.
Because she doesn’t need a man’s affection, she won’t have an emotional breakdown.
She will be gentle and virtuous in order to satisfy the man's vanity, and she will also stay away from him in order to make him worry about gain and loss. In short, even a scumbag is willing to invest.
In order to gain the trust of men, they will even invest some money.
I have seen a video before that reveals the tricks of a scumbag:
On Valentine’s Day, in order to gain the trust of men, she will take the initiative to send a red envelope of 520 yuan to many men.
Generally, men will be very moved after seeing this, because few women take the initiative to send red envelopes to men, so when men see such an action, they will trust the woman and send her a bigger red envelope.
It seems that a woman is giving, but in fact she is just in exchange for greater benefits.
The rationality of a scumbag is that she knows what kind of feedback the other party will give after she performs certain actions.
3. Create a sense of value through profit
In an intimate relationship, everyone wants to gain some value. Good women may want men's attention and favor, while bad women want more money.
They clearly know what they want and how they can make men continue to invest in them.
They will pretend to be helpless and ask you for help to make you feel superior, or reward you when you meet their requirements, but treat you indifferently when you fail to meet their requirements.
Slowly, you will continue to please them in order to maintain this sense of value, and even feel guilty because you cannot satisfy them.
When you feel that you are really sorry for her, you have already entered her trap.
So how can boys avoid meeting scumbags?
1. Recognize yourself and take the initiative Quan
Many men are deceived because they do not have a clear understanding of themselves and are easily fooled by other people's words and fall into their trap.
To show hospitality for nothing is either adultery or theft.
There is no giving without reason in this world. All giving is either with love or with a knife.
When someone is very nice to you for no reason, you want to think about what you have that deserves her to be nice to you.
When others praise you a few words, you really think you are excellent. When others give you ambiguous signals, you think you can really catch up with the goddess.
The shortcoming of not being able to recognize yourself is that you think you can easily catch up with the goddess, and you think you have the initiative. In fact, the real initiative lies in the hands of women.
You have to take the initiative to remove yourself from the relationship and look at your relationship and each other from a third party's perspective.
When you look at it from a rational perspective, you may find that if you turn off your mobile phone, you will have no contact at all.
You will find that she will always give you a feeling of aloofness, and it will be difficult for you to obtain some resources from her.
For example:
During a normal date or chat, she may only contact you at a fixed time, or even be permanently disconnected at other times, and keep saying that she is very busy.
She is very comfortable with your relationship. When you want to give up, she will tease you a few times and give you a little hope. When you want to get closer, she will deliberately alienate you. In short, she will not completely satisfy you. I leave you with expectations again.
2. Control desires and improve self-discrimination
For boys who are not experienced in the world, they have no means of counterattack when facing a scumbag.
The vast majority of simple men have too little experience and too low a rank to reject a scumbag.
It’s easy to counterattack. You have to understand what the scumbag’s purpose is, which is nothing more than to cheat money.
Just remember one thing, don’t believe it easily when it comes to getting money.
Any relationship needs to be balanced, giving and reciprocatingTo be equal, pay attention to setting a bottom line whether it is money or time.
Why are some people willing to be deceived?
Because they can always be bribed by women with small favors.
For example, normal people cannot obtain emotional value, so they will always be immersed in it, want to obtain more emotional value, and invest more costs, until one day the costs paid are enough. , only to realize that there is no turning back.
Always remember one sentence: the moment you are greedy for something cheap, you are already at risk of being deceived.
As Zweig said:
She was too young at that time and did not know that all the gifts given by fate had already been marked in secret.
