Although many people are disgusted with blind dates, we have to say that blind dates are also a way to get out of singles. So if you meet a girl you like on a blind date, how should you pursue her? Let’s take three steps.

1. Blind date location

First of all, when choosing a blind date location, we must consider that we are familiar with it, and A place relatively close to the girl's home.

Why do we do this?

Because it was the first time we met the girl we were dating, and neither of us were familiar with it yet.

If we make an appointment to meet somewhere, it will be the first time for both us and the girl.

Then you and the girl not only need to be familiar with each other, but also the environment. Both parties will feel insecure.

Then for you who are very good, your lack of security will not only make you panic, but also make you prone to making mistakes, and you will not be able to show your best state to the girl.

However, if you take a girl to a place that she has never been to but is familiar to you.

As long as it’s not a remote place like an Internet cafe where communication is not easy. Then when girls are unfamiliar with the environment, the missing part of their sense of security will be transferred to you.

At this time, she can only rely on you to lead her. This not only shows us high value, but also brings us closer to each other faster.

Then why is the meeting place, apart from being familiar to us, closer to the girl’s home?

Because it’s the first time you meet a girl, you generally don’t go to her house to pick her up, but The meeting place should not be too far from her home.

When you and she are not familiar with each other at the beginning, we need to find the conversation topic itself.

What should we do on the journey from her home to the blind date location?

What’s more, going downstairs to someone else’s house will break the safe distance.

Therefore, choosing a place close to the girl’s home to meet will make us appear caring and less likely to offend each other.

2. Chat topics

We have also shared how to chat with girls before, but when it comes to blind dates, The occasion is still different from other times.

There are two points we need to consider when meeting on a blind date, one is resonance and the other is suitability.

We can choose to start the conversation by chatting, "Was the road blocked just now? Is it troublesome to come here?"

Then we can resonate with the reason for the blind date, for example, "I heard that Many people are forced to go on blind dates by their families, are you the same?"

If the other party says yes, then we can also use this to complain and get closer to each other.

IfNo, then let’s start with topics that are unlikely to go wrong, such as travel and food.

Remember, if you want to resonate with the topic "We are all forced to go on a blind date by our families", try not to first say that you are forced to go on a blind date by your family.

If you say it first and the other party says that I am willing to come, then the resonance we want will be lost.

It may even make the other party feel repulsed: "Humph, you are looking down on me by saying this."

Of course, in addition to resonance, we also need to understand the girl's life. Habits, to judge whether our basic life pace is consistent.

We can say to the girl, after listening to you talk so much, I feel that you are a girl with a wide range of hobbies.

At this time, the topic will unfold along the lines of living habits.

If you find that the girl is a night owl and you are used to going to bed early, this will definitely become an area where you need to get along in the future.

Then you need to consider and be mentally prepared in advance.

3. The feeling after the blind date

When we meet the girl for the first time, after it is over, we think You know how girls feel about us.

I also thought that if I waited for two days, it might be too long, and people might not have the patience.

Here is a little trick to let you know immediately how she feels about this meeting.

That is, when you separate, pay attention to the change in the girl's expression.

For example, after you finish eating, you get up to leave or change scenes, she was still smiling at you.

But the moment she stood up, you found that her smile disappeared and turned into a serious face.

That means that the happiness and relaxation she showed in front of you just now were all fake.

After all, people will hide their true emotions when they have needs.

So when a girl leaves her position, she will subconsciously remove the cover-up, and her expression at this time will reveal her true feelings.