After confessing to a girl, she was told that she didn’t want to fall in love. In this case, would there be no chance?

In fact, after confessing to a girl, the girl said that she didn’t want to fall in love. If you have an idea, but you haven't explicitly rejected you, it means that you are not attracted to the other party enough at this time, but the other party is not disgusted with you, so there is no chance at all.

But generally speaking, many boys want to give up when a girl says she is not in love.

This is understandable. After all, this sentence makes boys feel very frustrated, and it is normal to want to give up.

But at this time, don’t impulsively say “just don’t agree” to a girl when she tells you “I don’t want to fall in love”, because that is more like venting yourself. Emotions can give girls an immature impression.

Also, don’t apologize to girls to avoid embarrassment and say, “I’m sorry, I was impulsive just now and caused you trouble.” If you try to smooth things over in this way, it will only make girls doubt your sincerity. It will be more difficult to woo girls.

Don’t continue to show your sincerity to girls and say things like: “I won’t give up, and one day you will definitely agree.” That will only expose your neediness and make girls There is pressure and I feel bored with you.

If you still want to pursue this girl, the most appropriate reply is: "Okay, I understand, I I still have something to do, so I’ll contact you later.”

In short, embarrassment is inevitable. At this time, you must leave the scene in time. Don’t show any complaints or frustrations towards the girl, and calm yourself down. Come down and let the negative emotions gradually subside. Then do the following three points:

1. Do a good job in self-construction

You must know that when you are troubled by a girl's rejection here, maybe the girl is chatting with other boys. , this is not to stimulate you, but to tell you that what you have to do is not only to chase girls, but also to read and study to enrich yourself, and to expand your social network and get to know more people.

You must know that a girl’s rejection of you is a well-thought-out decision based on her understanding of your past and current status. If you don't change, it's impossible to change a girl's attitude towards you.

Therefore, you need to change yourself and build yourself up, such as dressing up or behaving well, etc., from the inside out. Only when you have more suitable clothes and grooming can you make a better impression. When a girl has a changed opinion of you, there is also the matter of self-cultivation, which is actually a display of value. You can read some books and do some more meaningful things, such as learning a musical instrument, painting, photography, etc.

Go record everything about you and show it through your circle of friends, so that girls can see your changes and have the opportunity to continue to communicate with girls.

2. Daily interaction with girls

Whether it is likes, messages in Moments, or chatting on WeChat. Pay attention to one degree. Don't text her too frequently. Don’t go several days without any interaction, either. Be sure to pretend that you have never confessed your feelings at the beginning, and do not take the initiative to bring up related topics.

If you really can’t find any common topics, you can ask her some questions that she can answer. For example: I want to buy a bag for my mother or sister, do you have any specific questions such as recommendations?

Don’t ask her to recommend good movies or TV series to you. If her IOI (Indicator of Interest) for you is not high enough, she may answer you directly: "I don't know, I haven't looked at it much recently."

As your interactions increase, I believe that the relationship between you will increase. There must have been more chemical reactions, and there were broader and deeper topics.

3. Guide the topic and keep it fresh

When a girl wants to talk intentionally , you must remember to avoid becoming her emotional trash can. Many brothers easily ignore these small problems when communicating with girls. Think about it when a girl habitually confides her unhappy thoughts to you, as long as she has Negative emotions will come to you, and whenever there are negative emotions, they will be associated with you.

Then in the eyes of girls, they will not treat you as a man, and you might become their best friend. Also, such a close relationship will make girls regard you as a friend, and they will worry about you when you get together. After the relationship breaks down, you can't even be friends. In any case, you must guide the direction of the topic.

Secondly, learn to take the initiative to cut off. When you have a happy chat, even if she has not finished speaking, you have to find something to go away to keep her interested, so that she will be more willing to accompany you. Chat and get closer to each other.