Compared with boys who are straightforward, girls are relatively more emotional, so boys usually choose not to contact girls after rejecting them. However, if a girl rejects a boy, it may be different and she may reply to the boy's message. Then What do girls like this think?
1. Out of politeness
The girl refused but Maybe you didn't mean to tease the boy by returning the message, but just to be polite.
This type of girl will think that rejecting a boy’s confession only means that she is not suitable for falling in love with this boy, rather than that she will never have any contact with him for the rest of her life. Therefore, when a boy comes to see a girl for something, she will also I won’t pretend to be dead on WeChat.
Of course, although girls will reply to messages, these messages will make boys feel a clear sense of distance. The sentence "Although I am polite, but I know the sense of propriety" can fully express the inner state of this type of girls. They will not respond more or make some actions that make boys misunderstand.
2. Deliberately hanging on you
When a girl refuses but replies to the message, she may still have this mentality: You are indeed pretty good now, and I can like you, but I always feel that there is still something missing. To put it bluntly, it is "a pity to abandon it if it is tasteless." If you let me fall in love with you, I I really can't convince myself, but I feel reluctant to let you be a passerby from now on. I can only reject you first, but at the same time I hint that you still have a chance. Let's see if your small stock can grow from 78. The stock price rose to 108 per share.
This type of girl will make you feel "I rejected you for a reason, you have to keep working hard". At the same time, this type of girl will indirectly hint that she is dissatisfied with you. , and hope you can do better. Although chatting with such a girl may feel distant, sometimes it will make you feel wrong. Yes, such a girl is just hanging on to you.
3. Use you as a spare tire
If a girl doesn’t want to fall in love with you at all, she just wants to Enjoy your kindness to her for free. She will definitely reject you if you express your love, but she will still reply to you after rejecting you. Be careful when you meet such a girl. This is a type of girl who is good at keeping a spare tire.
This type of girls will make you willing to pay for them. They will reveal in their words that they still like you, or I just have feelings for you now, but don’t want to fall in love yet. In short, they will. Let you be sold and still willingly help others count their money.
"Who am I to you?" "You are my little fool, the kind that is so stupid that you die"
This kind of wanting to treat girls twice as much because of their own lack of love If a good spare tire wants to counterattack, it must firstTo correct your mentality, don't focus on the other person in everything, and focus more on yourself. Returning to yourself is the most important thing!
Secondly, you can continue to like this girl, but your pursuit method needs to change. You were too proactive before and were always in a "giving" state. You need to know that a healthy relationship should be in a relatively balanced state. So you should no longer blindly "give", but learn to "request" appropriately. The most important thing is - don’t be too proactive! Learn to say no!
If a girl refuses but still talks to you, there are mainly three situations mentioned above. If it is the first and second, it means she is a good person. Girls, you still have a good chance of catching her. If you are the third type of girl, be careful not to end up in vain!
