The age gap in love is also an issue that many people care about. Although we have often seen some romances with large age differences on the Internet in recent years, people's attitudes towards this have not changed, and there are still many voices that are opposed and unfavorable. But this is other people's opinions after all, and it does not mean that true love cannot exist when the age gap is large.
However, this kind of romance with a large age gap is still a minority. What most people are confused about is what is the best age difference between two people.
Regarding this problem, our instructor gave the following suggestions:
1. 0~ 5 years old
It is best if the age difference between two people is within five years. First of all, when it comes to finding a girlfriend, such age differences are generally acceptable and relatively normal for girls.
On the other hand, this difference is basically negligible, because the difference is very small, so in terms of communication and communication, it is easy to have common topics when the ideas are close. There will certainly not be too many differences due to differences in ideas. Therefore, this age difference stage is the most suitable for finding a girlfriend.
Two, 5~10 years old
The age difference at this stage is the second level. The age difference between men and women is 5 to 10 years. First of all, for most girls, the level of acceptance is lower than at the 0 to 5-year-old stage. Of course there will be certain differences in thinking. For example, when it comes to money, you may prefer saving, but girls definitely want to enjoy the present.
However, the differences at this stage are still acceptable, and through running-in and contact, they can gradually understand each other. And the difference at this stage also has certain advantages, that is, one party is slightly more mature than the other. This is a good choice for those who like to be a little more mature than themselves.
Three, 10~15 years old
The difference in this age group is the third level. From this age onwards, it becomes increasingly difficult to fall in love. First of all, for girls, if they are younger than you, it may be more difficult for them to accept this relationship. And the age difference is not that small, so a generation gap will definitely arise. At this time, there will be obvious differences in thinking between the two people, so there will definitely be a lot more conflicts after they get together.
Secondly, with this age difference, you also have to bear pressure from relatives and friends. After all, the difference is quite big. It is definitely not favored in the eyes of everyone. Therefore, relatives and friends will strongly oppose it.
4. Over 15 years old
If the age difference is more than fifteen years old, I advise you to see clearly whether the relationship between you is true love. Because when your age difference is more than fifteen yearsEven if it is very big. What is 100% certain is that your way of thinking is absolutely very different. So if you say that you have a spiritual resonance, it is 100% unbelievable. Absolutely nonsense.
Think about why a beautiful girl would like you, who can be said to be middle-aged and elderly. Therefore, it is not that society does not understand, but that if there is no very special reason, then this woman's motives will never be pure.
Of course, feelings are a relatively complex emotion. Sometimes when the feeling comes, it will be difficult for you to accept other people's opinions and views in your mind. However, I still advise you to carefully consider this age difference before looking for a girlfriend.
