WeChat Moments has always been a place for us to share interesting things about life. In fact, in addition to sharing life, WeChat Moments can also play a certain role in chasing girls when used in the right way. , what kind of Moments can you post to a girl to attract her?
1. Provide value
If you want your circle of friends to be a big help when chasing girls, then your friends The circle must have some kind of value, whether it is survival value or emotional value.
The so-called survival value mainly includes work, skills, hobbies, etc., which mainly shows concentration, attitude and taste. The emotional value refers to the emotion you convey when you post this post to Moments, whether it is positive or complaining, positive energy or negative energy.
You can pay attention to the classic images of green tea or scumbags in movies and TV series, why they can get the love of others like moths to the flame, their Where is the "brilliance" of emotional intelligence?
One of the most important details is that they can self-dissolve all negative emotions and always appear harmless to humans and animals. Appearing in front of the other half, continuously providing energy to the other half.
Every time you are unhappy, your resentment disappears as soon as you see the other person. Do you still want to see her again? In the same way, you can provide girls with Emotional value, to her, you are the irreplaceable person. This is the importance of emotional value.
2. Interaction
When you provide a certain value in your circle of friends, you can leave a good impression on girls. Of course, just a good impression alone is not enough when chasing girls, so , next we need to have more interactions with girls through the circle of friends.
Interact with girls in the circle of friends,It can very well weaken your sense of need.
Because people themselves have a relatively relaxed and casual mentality when using Moments, they will naturally think, "Everyone is quite casual, not so Strong purpose."
The specific form of interaction can be that you comment under her circle of friends, or you can follow her post in her circle of friends.
There are actually two core ideas. One is to explore the potential needs of the other party, and the other is to seize every possible sense of connection.
Give some examples of practical applications.
Case 1:
A boy and girl were once classmates. A posted a few lyrics on WeChat Moments two years ago, and a girl even left a message for him. Later, A learned that the girl was single and wanted to pursue her, but he had not contacted her in the past two years and did not know what to say to the girl. After I learned more about their situation, I concluded that girls’ cognitive label for boys is still “ordinary classmates”.
The reasons that prevent the two of them from being together are that they are "too familiar with each other" and their thinking that "the other is a classmate" has been solidified; Second, there has been little contact in the past two years, which has made the relationship that once seemed familiar become alienated. Therefore, one of the best ways for him to re-establish a sense of connection is to thoughtfully reply to the girl under the "moments that girls have commented on him before". After a while, the girl sent a proactive greeting message.
Case 2:
The girl B likes is a little "foodie". On this day, a girl posted on WeChat and said, "I really want to eat hot and sour noodles." If you were B, what would you do? In my opinion, ordinary boys would give a like; a warm-hearted boy would send a message to a girl to say hello; A domineering guy might just order her takeout. In fact, this is essentially to show concern, this is called homogeneous competition.
B found me because he tried the above three methods with different people he was interested in, but the relationship did not get better. I asked him: The girl did post on WeChat to express her desire to eat hot and sour noodles, but if she just "wanted to eat", why didn't she eat it herself? Why did she post on WeChat? Why did she ask you to See?
This is precisely because, on the surface, her needs are hunger and greed, but in fact, her deeper needs are The desire to be noticed means that you need someone to accompany you, and if that person happens to be interesting, so much the better. The trick I gave him was that next time a girl posts a similar post to Moments, you should also post one. Search the Internet for a picture of the most appetizing hot and sour noodles with a text that says, "The hot and sour noodles at your doorstep are so delicious." , grab a girl to accompany me some other time. "If a girl doesn't send a message to you, you can find me."
