In real life, if we meet a woman with aura, your eyes will definitely be attracted to her unconsciously, because a woman with aura has an invisible attraction that can make your His eyes followed her. In the same way, women are also attracted to men with aura, so why do some men have aura at first sight? See if you are an aura man?
1. What is a man's aura?
In "Shishuo Xinyu", there is such a fragment: The general idea is that Cao Cao wanted to receive the Huns' envoy, but he He felt that his image was not very good, so he asked another person with a good image to replace him, and he stood beside him with a big knife. After the reception, Cao Cao sent someone to ask the Xiongnu envoy how he felt. The envoy said: "The King of Wei is indeed very graceful, but I think the man holding the sword by the bedside is the real hero!"
Although Cao Cao looks ordinary, he has a very aura. Powerful, this is an ability he has developed through many years of fighting, killing, and making decisions. He has a strong control over things, resulting in a strong aura.
Therefore, a man’s aura does not mean how handsome you should be, nor does it mean that you should be strong, but that you should be strong. You felt at ease, had decision-making power, control, and confidence in yourself.
Whether in the workplace or emotionally, a person's aura is nothing more than self-confidence, the ability to control things, and being good at expressing oneself.
2. How do men become more aura
Some people say that they have dated girls many times and the girls have not agreed, and they are very distressed; some people say that they often quarrel with their girlfriends and have a hard time getting along. I'm tired and don't know what to do... Actually, this is all a problem with my aura. When we do something and there is a problem with the preset purpose, there will be problems with the aura. For example, if you are chatting with a girl, but what you want in your mind is to make some progress with this girl immediately, there will definitely be problems with your aura, which is related to your preset purpose. So how should a man become more aura?
1. Arrive ten minutes early for an appointment to meet someone
In fact, it is also a good idea to arrive ten minutes early for an appointment to meet someone. A kind of negotiation skill, aura is actually a kind of control ability. If you arrive early, you will have the upper hand, because if you arrive early, you will be more calm and relaxed, because during that time, the location of your date has temporarily changed. It becomes your home court, and you have more control over the environment at that time.
2. Increase your own knowledge
When we say that a person has aura, it is not about how handsome he is. Aura is actually a kind of personality charm. Where do you put him? He can handle everything with ease and do things very well, because he is knowledgeable and knowledgeable. The more you get along with him, the more attractive he becomes.
3. Read more books
There is a lot of knowledge we don’t know in the book. If you want to be a person with aura, you have to Education, connotation, insight, and accomplishment are the most basic qualities.
Of course, the formation of a person’s aura does not happen overnight. This requires men to pay more attention to cultivating their own aura in daily life.
