A scumbag is nothing but a scumbag, and an honest man is nothing but an honest man. This is really speechless, but it is irrefutable. In fact, honest people sometimes might as well learn some of the ways that scumbags chase girls (I’m not suggesting that you become scumbags). In fact, it is not difficult to get out of singles. Let me share with you how honest people can change themselves to find a girlfriend.

1. Why are honest people not welcomed by girls?

A scumbag is good at everything but being a scumbag, and an honest man is nothing but honest. This is really speechless, but it is irrefutable.

The reason girls feel comfortable getting along with a scumbag is because of his rental mentality. He has never thought about getting married and living with you. He just wants to be comfortable and not quarrel at the moment. If he really can’t get along with you, he will kidnap you morally and make you do it. If he doesn't want to change, just replace him.

Most of the conflicts between girls and honest people are due to his nurturing thinking. When he thinks about you and his future, he definitely hopes that you can change your bad habits so that the family can become happier, but he never thought about it. Substitute.

See the difference? They both ask girls to change, but girls are more willing to accept the former. Because most people are confused in life but hate others telling them.

And many honest people love to preach. So it's easy to unconsciously say something good for her from your own perspective and ask the girl to change it. It's strange that the girl doesn't resist contacting you.

2. How do honest people change themselves

Many honest people have this idea of ????chasing a girl for the first time. I have never corrected myself, always thinking about confessing my love to a girl, pleasing her, and giving her gifts so that we can be together.

I usually chat with girls, bragging when I have nothing to do, and talk about how others chase her. I see many guys forcing themselves to add drama to girls when they have no feelings for me, such as being a lover. Jie insists on giving 520 yuan to the girl. This is not necessary. Any technique will be effective when a girl responds well to you, including romance.

The more this crazy gift-giving behavior exposes one's own needs, the further the distance between you will become. If you meet a girl with a good character, she will refuse and tell you that she is just a friend. I'm afraid of those girls who are obsessed with making money. They say that you are her baby and that she loves you very much, but in actual actions, they have nothing to show for it.

The difference between an honest man and a scumbag lies in his ability to flirt, recognize emotions, lead, and make decisions. So how can an honest person change himself to find a girlfriend?

1. What matters when pursuing a girl is attraction and value; money cannot directly affect her, but emotions can.

2. It is important to maintain a sense of mystery. Do not share everything you know without reservation. Everyone can accept that the object maintains its value., but they are all longing for their lovers to continue to appreciate in value.

3. Men think rationally, while women think emotionally.

4. A man’s attraction switch is like a switch. As long as he takes one look at a girl, he will know whether she is the one he likes. A woman's attraction switch is like a volume adjuster, which can change gradually; if you want to attract girls, you can show potential language such as daily life, language expression, and emotional control.

　5. Most boys cannot withstand the pressure of girls who are better than themselves, so they want to be downward compatible; while most girls look down on girls who are similar to themselves, and they feel that they should be upward compatible.

6. Most people get divorced because they were too casual and did not do screening.

7. Being obedient requires obeying kinetic energy. If you get used to paying for you, the next paying will be easy. If you keep giving without asking her for anything in return, and you get used to this way and you want to change, you will be called a scumbag. If you don't love her, you have changed, so don't wrong yourself.

8. I will talk to you about money and material things only when I don’t have love.